I think we all have memories or moments we cherish just a little bit more . It might feel good to just exist in those memories, to drift away . It is also those memories that hurts the most, especially when they go away . In that way love can be a curse . It causes some people to cling on tight, afraid of being hurt . Others never try or push people away ensuring that they will not even get the chance to hurt . It is hard to love beqause it matters, maybe not on Mars or to the infinate universe but it does to the one loving . By expecting the pain we can learn to love, empathize and maybe grow. No one is perfect and neither is love but we are capable of learning . Love is to cherish what is or was while excepting that nothing is forever. It is ok to hurt it shows a brave, loving heart.